Friday, September 23, 2011

Khaaliq is pretty mean when he does not eat for a long period of time. When he wakes up in the mornings, he doesn't want to talk, he doesn't want to smile, I actually think he would love it if he could just roll down the hall instead of walk. So after 4 or 5 yells of "GET UP KHAALIQ", he grumbles, gets up, and stomps down the hall straight to the kitchen. He grabs the first thing not moving that is some form of nourishment, and makes these really odd sounds at the kitchen table. Within a few minutes (food gone of course), he gets up, puts his dishes in the sink and starts talking. It's pretty much none stop talking from there too just

Brianna cannot walk by a person standing on the outside of a store asking for money or food. It literally upsets her. I guess as adults, we are so jaded to the world because of this and that, that we can walk by and it not touch us in some kind of way. We were walking out of the BP station last week and a guy was asking for change and honestly, it really didn't phase me. I kept on walking but i noticed I didn't hear Bri behind me. She was digging in her pockets to see if she had change. She didn't so she ran up to the car, asked me to "look please in my purse for some". I kind of grumbled, but I looked and gave her all I had and she smiled and took it back to the man. When she got in the car, she said " I would feel bad when I got home drinking my green tea and eating my chips knowing he didn't have any".

And once again, my kids have made me think... how encouraged I am when I am filled up. How much simpler and better life is when I am not running on empty (or my belly is full, as in Khaaliq's case). It doesn't take much. A listening ear, a shoulder to cry on or even a smile or kind word. It's not always about money, but if you have a little extra, what harm would it do to buy someone lunch, ask them over for dinner or just drop off a bag of groceries "just because".

So my kids have challenged me in a few different ways. I could let alot of things fill me up..... anger, greed, jealousy, worries or I can choose to let positive things fill my thoughts and mind. I can encourage others in whatever way possible and if God puts an opportunity in front of me to help someone, then I will.

"Get along among yourselves, each of you doing your part. Our counsel is that you warn the freeloaders to get a move on. Gently encourage the stragglers, and reach out for the exhausted, pulling them to their feet. Be patient with each person, attentive to individual needs. And be careful that when you get on each others nerves you don't snap at each other. Look for the best in each other, and always do your best to bring it out." - I Thessalonians 5:13-15

I pray you all have a wonderful, wonderful, blessed weekend!! Until next time, Lord willing.....


  1. Your daughter has such a tender heart and I pray that she will not loose this gift. You must consider sharing your posts at some of the Blog Hops. There are many. Here is one you might like: Play dates with God at
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  2. Excellent! Inspirational!
    Happy moments, praise God.
    Difficult moments, seek God.
    Every moment, thank God.

  3. Hi there,
    I was just out "Blog Hopping" and came across you. :)
    This was a beautiful post and it made me smile and giggle.
    I'm a lot like Khaaliq. My husband says that I'm a bear if my belly is empty. ;)

    What a sweetheart your daughter is. I was reading in a book a few months back "One Simple Act" by Debbie Macomber, about how to give to people like the person you encountered. It's a great idea to keep gift certificates in your wallet and hand those out instead of money. A $10 gift certificate to McDonalds would ensure he gets a meal instead of "something " else. She also told the story of a young single Mum at church who seemed to be struggling. She reached into her wallet and brought out a few gift certificates and told her to take her kids out for lunch.
    Sorry for rambling but I just think that it's such an amazing idea. :)

    Anyhow, I love your blog-found it very uplifting.